“I’m tired of games. I’m weary of girls who play at being coy. I’m tired of girls who imagine they need to be hard-won. In fact. The girl who plays at being hard-to-get diminishes herself in my eyes. Stop reading books on the ‘Proper’ way to relate to a man – on the ‘right’ way to spark his pursuit. Stop reading Elizabeth Elliot, Joshua Harris, and the Dougs. Simply love God, focus your heart on Christ, and treat your Christian brothers as you would wish to be treated: as a normal human being. Find yourself in friendship with a man. If you like him, let him know. If you don’t like him, let him know. It’s not difficult. It’s not life-changing. But it is a start to a good relationship. ” (>>)